got a message from a friend, naghahanap daw siya ng spells on how to refrain from thinking about certain people, sort of forget them na lang. kung meron man ganun, i would have wanted to try them! BUT on the second thought, HUWAG NA LANG! ayoko ng witchcraft eh. i still believe that forgetting is not exactly a wholesome way of moving on. it's much like forgiving -- hindi ako naniniwala sa kasabigang forgive and forget, or forget and forgive, or whatever. not that i haven't learned the art of forgiving, it's just that feeling ko hindi whole-hearted yun kung ang strategy mo to do so is to forget. am not claiming to know much about this process for i myself have struggled and is struggling to find my way out of this maze. siguro it's a natural part of growing up, of becoming mature enough to understand life and the complexities of dealing with people in order to survive through each day. hindi naman natin kasalanan kung along the way we meet people who eventually betray the trust that we have given them. it's not our fault that some people could be as insensitive as they could be. in the same way, hindi nila kasalanan kung hindi tayo heartless na katulad nila. that is one sad reality about dealing with people. hmmm... that's why sa ngayon i just remain silent and listen na lang. kasi i do not exactly want to tell people to just forget and move on. hindi ito ang way para sa akin, siguro better pa to accept and move on. mas mahirap yun pero baka mas okay..malay natin!
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